the more open you can be to be completely devastated by something, the more possibility opens up to you. And I think that that's true in life. I think that's true in love. I know that that's true in sport. The more you open yourself up to devastation, the more possibility will be open to you.
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Maria Popova
The sea does not reward those who are too anxious, too greedy, or too impatient. To dig for treasures shows not only impatience and greed, but lack of faith. Patience, patience, patience, is what the sea teaches.
Anne Morrow Lindbergh — Gift from the Sea
The trick is to keep learning. If you stop learning, other people will pass you by. Temperament alone won't do it — you have to keep learning, because the world keeps changing, and you have to keep up with it and even get ahead of it.
Charlie Munger — USC Law School Commencement Address