The art of being wise is the art of knowing what to overlook. The faculty of voluntarily bringing back a wandering attention, over and over again, is the very root of judgment, character, and will.
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Do I know for sure, for sure, if we should do it? No, but I do know we can't keep talking about it. We're either never going to do it, or we're going to become two Tony Randles who feed our baby applesauce that we also eat.
Colman Domingo — Fresh Air
When we feel that our partner is not meeting our needs, we tend to assume that we've chosen the wrong person. We blame them for being selfish, or insensitive, or not trying hard enough. But research suggests that the problem often lies not with our partner, but with how well we've communicated what we actually need.
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