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3quarksdaily.com
Maladaptive frugality

I realized I could either continue to drain myself for a small expense, or let it go and focus on the projects in front of me. I had, unknowingly, engaged in maladaptive frugality.

Herbert Lui
1w ago

As an addict, you have to remind yourself that you're still an addict, even when you aren't doing things that are terrible for you.

2w ago

The mechanics that make fitness culture highly visible and shareable are not always (or even typically) the ones that produce sustained behavior change.

2w ago
lennysnewsletter.com
Your Couch-to-5K for AI

When people say they want to do something but are too busy, there is almost always something else standing in their way. This is the root of procrastination. At its core, you are waiting for some external force to change—like your endless to-do list magically disappearing, or your calendar suddenly opening up—rather than making a change in your actions, which is hard.

3w ago
whyisthisinteresting
The Ukemi Edition

Your first judo class involves none of that whatsoever. Instead, you spend the overwhelming majority of your time falling down. You fall on your back and your side. You roll into a fall. You get reprimanded for sticking your arm out or not keeping your chin tucked. You are learning ukemi, the art of breakfalling. It is the foundational skillset that has allowed me, as a 41-year-old, to show up to the dojo multiple times a week and get thrown onto my back with full force by friends and strangers, and head home after to toss my kids around, carry the groceries, and do plenty of other things I'd struggle to do if I'd hurt myself.

4w ago

We accept the verdict of the past until the need for change cries out loudly enough to force upon us a choice between the comforts of further inertia and the exertion involved in a new action.

4w ago

The man who moves a mountain begins by carrying away small stones.

4w ago

A man may take to drink on account of trouble, but he would be none the better for the drinking; whereas, if he takes to reading, he will become wise.

1mo ago

The moment he felt sad, or scared, or uneasy, or bored, his hand would shoot instinctively, Gollum-like, toward the device. He scrolled while he walked, while he lay in bed; he scrolled while talking with friends.

1mo ago
themarginalian.org
Do Not Spare Yourself

there is no damnation greater than spending our allotted days in the catatonia of comfort and certainty, our inner lives automated by habit and halogen lit by convenience.

1mo ago

To say that an infinitely scrolling feed encourages overuse is to make no comment on its contents; only that the intermittent rewards that such a feed creates turns it into a kind of slot machine, and that teens would be less likely to develop problematic use if it didn't exist.

1mo ago

The mind is furnished with a set of instincts which seek out certain kinds of phenomena and are peculiarly sensitive to their presence, and which, once awakened, work and grow by exercise. Our forefathers had convictions; we have only opinions.

1mo ago

I want us to all build wardrobes that make us happy, last a long time, and help us feel more like ourselves.

1mo ago

If you really think about it, "intensity," "consistency" and "authenticity" apply to almost everything that matters. Raising children requires intensity — that ferocious love and superhuman strength that shows up at 3 a.m. when you're exhausted but still rocking a baby back to sleep. Building something meaningful requires consistency — the unglamorous act of showing up again and again, long after the initial excitement fades.

2mo ago

Being in familiar surroundings with adequate control over my time and space is a necessary condition for immersing myself fully in reading, writing, and taking pictures—activities that nourish me and give me space for creativity.

2mo ago

A man may take to drink on account of trouble, but he ought to take to work on account of it. Work is the cure, not the cause of the trouble.

2mo ago

The best thing you can do is to get really good at something that is valuable to the market. And the way to get really good at something is to practice it obsessively, but you have to pick something that you have genuine curiosity about.

2mo ago

The best investment you can make is in yourself. But very few people do it, because it's unglamorous and requires a lot of discipline.

2mo ago

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