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The characteristic human trait is not awareness but conformity, and the astute person is not one who perceives the truth but one who is most adept at bending it.

— Lionel Trilling, The Liberal Imagination (1950)
1w ago

Throughout most of the 2010s, there was a popular notion that society should basically ignore and shun people like that, and that if we all simply shunned them, and pressured our friends and colleagues to shun them, they and their views would vanish from American society — or at least remain marginalized. That approach failed. Anti-immigrant ideas didn't remain marginalized — in fact, they took over the country, despite their continued unpopularity among the general American public.

4w ago

The demand of the loveless and the intriguing for your attention is not to be satisfied by giving it. It is to be met by making them feel that they are of no consequence to you.

4w ago

It is not so much that man is a herd animal, but that he is a horde animal, led by a chief; and if he has no chief, he makes one up and idealizes him.

1mo ago

The most important thing about a technology is how it changes the options available to people. Most technologies become less interesting as they become more widely distributed, but communications technologies become more interesting — the value of a network grows as more people join it. The same is not true of a hammer or a loom.

1mo ago

The thing about Cassandra was not that she said unpleasant things, but that what she said was true. That is what made her intolerable.

3mo ago
whyisthisinteresting
The Cities and Moods Edition

Ordinarily, street busking is an irritant. The L train runs cheek-to-jowl. Trash smells mingle with thick summer humidity and New Yorkers are gruff in the usual and familiar ways. But given the emotional tenor of the city — a sporting run generating real civic electricity, World Cup fixtures underway, and a large swath of the population feeling optimism — the complaints could be set aside for a moment. Not indefinitely. Just gently, briefly, the way you let a difficult friend off the hook on a good day.

4mo ago

If you spend enough nights on the floor listening to people order martinis, explain natural wine to dates, or negotiate status through reservation choices, you start to realize restaurants are basically focus groups for contemporary aspiration.

4mo ago
honest-broker.com
Why I Believe in Karma

It was amazing that a tactic so simple could defeat more sophisticated strategies. It suggested that there was something inherently powerful in reciprocity. Just as the proverb predicts: As you sow, so shall you reap.

6mo ago

My friends, being my friends, invariably champion the necessity of objects piling up in my yard.

6mo ago

The housed neighbors began to see things, and hear things, things they hadn't seen or heard so much before.

7mo ago
longreads.com
In Search of Banksy

It is one of the most popular names in Britain, so common it helps him hide in plain sight.

7mo ago

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