We're judges of other people's change, and we don't always do it in the most thoughtful, considered way.
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It is not irritating to be where one is. It is only irritating to think one would like to be somewhere else.
John Cage — Silence: Lectures and Writings
You've probably been told that better choices come from more data or sharper reasoning, but neuroscience shows us that our choices are fundamentally emotional. Our feelings are the underlying 'context-setters' on which our rational brain acts. When we avoid certain emotional states, our solution set becomes constrained in ways we may not even be aware of.
Joe Hudson
The obscure we see eventually. The completely obvious, it seems, takes longer.
Edward R. Murrow — Address to the Radio-Television News Directors Association