I think that is so healthy to say, "I love you so much. I don't want to break up our family. I actually don't want anything to change, but I think I need to have sex with somebody else." What's the big deal in saying that?
A good nepo husband knows to like let his wife be a star, but so many men struggle with that and they like want a piece of the pie and then they they drown the whole pie.
The healthiest relationships I find are when men and women have alignment around their approach to money. Who is responsible for bringing it in? What is their approach to spending?
The data would show that when men were making all the money was that it was it was our money. That's interesting. And now that women are making as much money or more than men, then there's a separation which I find.
