You're not even choosing what you actually like. There's a widely circulated essay from a writer named Jasmine Kanik, who said that pressure lands as a recognition for grown women, and she used that term specifically. And I want to read an excerpt. She writes, What Jill Scott offers in Pressure is something rare. She names the weight grown women carry quietly, the pressure to be everything, hold everything, absorb everything, and will still make it look graceful.
